Honorable /ˈänərəb(ə)l/

HonorableTheft. Murder. Human Trafficking.

All we have to do is read the daily news headlines to find account after account of dishonorable actions. I find the news utterly demoralizing; I hate to see the many ways mankind can injure, defame, and oppress one another. Depravity and sin seem to run rampant.

In Philippians 4:8, Paul exhorts his readers to think on things that are respectable or honorable. I wonder what the news headlines were in their day. Paul’s letter to the Philippians is an intensely personal letter, one in which he consistently encourages them that though suffering will be part of their lives, great joy can be had in the midst of it. 

What a great message for a pessimist to hear: joy in the midst of sufferings. Paul’s readers likely dealt with anxiety in their circumstances and worried for their beloved Paul who was in prison while writing this letter. Paul suggests that to deal with that anxiety – to have peace – they should think on honorable, respectable things, among others listed in the same verse.

The word for honorable (or respectable) is used three other times in the New Testament:

  • In 1 Timothy 3:8, describing a good candidate for the role of deacon; someone worthy of respect, not prone to greed, drunkenness or hypocrisy.
  • In 1 Timothy 3:11, depicting the desirable character of a wife as being self-controlled and faithful, not slanderous.
  • In Titus 2:2 where he describes the behavior of godly men: level-headed, worthy of respect, sensible, and sound in faith, love and endurance.

Today I tried to think about those people in whom I see honorable traits and the ways I’ve observed mankind treat one another well. I’ve reflected on the times I’ve witnessed selfless giving, candid confessions of failure, words of respect spoken of another, and perseverant faith over the course of many years.

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Though these mental vignettes haven’t made the headlines in my city, state or country, they do restore to me a sense of peace and joy.

They remind me that while the whole of mankind lives in a broken, sinful condition, there are examples of valiant character living in the midst of it – by and for God’s glory.

Pessimist: Nearly every major retail franchise at which I shop has had their credit card systems hacked by thieves who are stealing both money and identities. Which one will be next?

Optimist: While that may (continue to) be true, I have also been privy to tender moments when someone has purchased the groceries for the person ahead of them in line…. someone removing items from their tab due to a lack of sufficient funds. 

Got any examples of honorable behavior you could share with us? Let’s make our own headlines; share in the comments below or on Facebook.

ThinkThis post is part of a 31 day series entitled “Think on these things: Learning optimism.” For a full catalog of all the posts, visit the first page in the series by clicking here.

 

 

6 Comments

  1. Tara Ulrich on October 15, 2014 at 2:51 pm

    Loved this! My mom is one of the most honorable people I know. She would give the shirt of her back. I try to live by her examples. I also think of my friends who have served in Haiti. My friend Renee lost her husband Ben in the Haiti earthquake. They were in Haiti because they wanted to learn and serve the people there. In many ways, I see that as honorable. Honorable is my friend Nicole and her hubby adopting a little girl from Bulgaria. The other dag at church many kids shared their toys with their little girl when those kids could have been selfish and not shared them. Honorable is sharing their Moms journey of death in the hopes that it will touch and bless others. I love Psalm 30 which says “Weeping may come for the night, but joy comes with the morning!” For some reason, your post today reminded me also of that verse.



    • Kirsten Holmberg on October 15, 2014 at 8:11 pm

      Tara, I’m struck by how many of your examples involve honorable behavior in the midst of difficult circumstances, or choices that would require hardship. Thank you for adding to the discussion!



  2. Kirsten Holmberg on October 15, 2014 at 8:11 pm

    Tara, I’m struck by how many of your examples involve honorable behavior in the midst of difficult circumstances, or choices that would require hardship. Thank you for adding to the discussion!



  3. Julia Wilson Elzie via Facebook on October 15, 2014 at 8:26 pm

    Over these last weeks, especially, I have stopped watching the news and am only reading morning newspaper, snuggled in bed, with hot coffee. We watch Sesame Street, Disney, happy shows during the day. Everywhere I turn, the hymn, “Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus” has been playing, so I hum it a lot. Our wonderful pastor has preached many times that the Bible can be summed up in 2 words: “God wins.” I hold onto that pearl of wisdom, too. My focus has been pulled towards my family and home – my husband has to work out in the big bad world and our daughter will soon start pre-school, so I try turn our home into an oasis and refuge. Maybe I am sticking my head in the sand, but it is working…so I will go with it.



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