Christmas Upside-down

Senseless, untimely deaths.

Inexplicable illnesses.

Life-altering diagnoses.

Strained relationships.

Financial distress.

Loneliness and depression.

Weariness and fear.

All juxtaposed against the holiday that’s supposed to be happy.

Approaching Christmas in December seems to press on the tender, raw places in our lives. We’re more aware of our loved ones’ absences because we’re rightly accustomed to gathering with them to celebrate. The world around us seems to go merrily on its way while we bear our burdens. Somehow, facing such difficult circumstances during December seems more unjust.  Read More

Giving…With Just Cause

Should we base our tithe on our pre-tax or post-tax income?  This debate occurs somewhat frequently in circles when the topic of tithing arises.  I’ve asked the question, too.

Frankly, I’ve decided it’s beside the point.  I find it to be a flimsy veil behind which hands are clenched tightly around dollars and ‘stuff.’  What, then, will liberate treasure from our grubby little mitts?

Commitment and Sacrifice
With commitment comes a loss of freedom.  Committing to give in the form of dollars or hours implicitly requires denial of self in another area, if for no other reason than we lack infinite resources.

Sacrifice, by definition, isn’t sacrifice unless it costs something. When we give to a charitable organization, including churches, we commonly deduct it on our Federal taxes, rendering our sacrifice less costly to us.   Read More